Relationship...

Recently, another broken relationship happened around me again.

I don't really know the male and female lead. saw them and talked to them several times but not really very close.

They were together for about 2 to 3 years. From what I heard, it was the guy who initiated the break-up.

His reason was that he don't wish to restrict himself to one lady only and it is too early to restrict himself to one lady only. I think that is a very selfish thought. If that is the case, why be together in the first place? Is the lady not good enough for you? Hai..

In the past, I used to think that if you are able to be together for a long period, then most likely you will get married. I am wondering why is it not possible that you will be able to get married if you are able to be together for a long period. Am I be shallow to say that? Maybe..

Maybe a relationship is not about the number of months or years. It is the quality of time you spent with that person... Even though you spent years together and it was spent quarreling, then I don't think those were quality time spent.

Hai.. nvm la... none of my business anyway. Just wanna say out my thoughts... nitey nitey...

my 2 weeks leave ending in 1 more day...=(

A happy normal day

today i went to work as usual....

when he msged me, i replied as usual....

he sent me a msg as follows...
18th August 2009 11:15
"at pk alr ahx? You wil be going back office later? If got then I leave my tie there you bring back for me… ok ok?"

I was in office clearing artivision stuff. I planned to go PK before lunch because freddie is there. Wanna clear things with him. He will be back in office after lunch. But I think when he is back, he wouldn't be free to entertain me already. He will be busy with his AEH stuff.

Back to the message, I didn't really think much when I saw that message. I was thinking it was just another way of bullying me. Ha.. For your info, he likes to bully me alot.

Met him and jj (my another colleaque) for lunch. Lunch was normal for us.

During lunch, he kept insisting me to put his two ties, which I placed in my locker, in his locker straight after lunch. Even though I just don't understand why, I still did what he told me to...

I opened up the locker

When I went to the locker.. I saw a gold paper bag inside.. Alot of thoughts went through my mind.. I kept thinking who was the one

When I went to the locker after lunch, I saw a gold paper bag in my locker. I was wondering what was that. Who put it inside. I took it out and saw that it is a citigem paper bag..

I don't dare to think alot. Afraid that I might b dissappointed.. I slowly opened the paper bag and saw what's inside... It was another package! Haha.. =p.. I opened up the packaging n saw a box.. Inside the box

I took out the paper bag and I saw Citigems on that paper bag and straight away, I know it was from him. My tears just flow down uncontrollably and it just won't stop. I was very very very touched.

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I have told him I wanted a necklace for my bday present. I just felt that it is very sweet to be wearing the necklace everyday. haha... okie.. I think that is very childish or stupid of me to think that way. But then I still think it is very sweet.. =)

We went to see a few jewellery stores. Citigems was one of them. It has a necklace which is very nice but very expensive. It is about 300 plus. So we concluded that it was too expensive and decided not to spend the money on that and to save the money to buy flat instead. I managed to convince myself and not think about that until that day..
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和他在一起之后，我才知道为何人会应为感动而流泪。。。

out of work = into life

saw this nick from one of my seniors...

I think this is really true for auditors, is it?

or is it most of the jobs, this sentence will stand?

I think actually it is a choice ultimately.

Work = money = better standard of living

so you need to make a choice.

If you want a better standard of living, you work like hell.

If you think spending quality time with your family members, you work less and maybe a more normal standard of living.

I think my parents chose the former.

They slogged so as to provide a better living for their children. They only have two days of rest per year. Well... Because of that, they didnt get to spend time with their children. They always missed my Meet the parents session. It was always subsituted by my aunt.

I used to think that it is important to spend time with your children. I even had a dream to become housewife. To look after my children and spend time with them.

Now, I have started working. I think I am working like my parents. I seldom see them and seldom talk to them. Most of my time was spent working. Sometimes it was spent with him.

Sometimes I felt like changing jobs. But I wanted to provide more for my parents. So that they can lead a better life in future.

So am I stepping in their footsteps?

I think I can't reach a conclusion yet.

P.S. But I think auditors work doubly as hard as those of the same pay. mmm....Think the only good side is the pay rise is very fast...