Saturday, April 5, 2008

commitment

have been wondering........

why will couples break up???????

what are the reasons that makes them break up

hahaha... okie.... a weird thought... have been wondering this because i dun think i will initiate a break up no matter what... unless it is really beyond repair


i think maybe some reasons might be
1. in-compatibility
2. no chemistry?
3. timing not right?

i think no matter what is the reason.... i feel that what it matters was whether the person that initiate the break up tried to save the relationship before breaking up or does the person tells the other party there is a problem?

haix... i think that is what relationship is about...communication.....

mmm... so what is my title about???

i think if u have the commitment to this relationship, u will try to save the relationship before it falls apart. hee... actually that was quoted by janey when i tok abt this to her today.... that's what she felt

what i felt originally was whether the person feels like settling down? if he does, dont think he will initiate a break up that easily.....

okie... let's end this 严肃的 topic....

5 comments:

doLpHiNz(^_^) said...

hahaha..actuali ahz..the commitment part is quoted by zy wor..wahahah bt i agree with e both o u all la...3C's...
1. Commitment
2. Communication
3. Contribution (a new add-on from janey..hehe whether the person gt made a effort to contribute the relationship anot)
any other C add-ons frm anyone???hehehe

xin said...

ohx..... wa.... okie.. mmmm..... contribution? weird C... but true ahx.... else it will only be one-sided.... make sense make sense.... hee...

doLpHiNz(^_^) said...

whahaha okiz okiz...i thk a beta "C" would be compromise??sorry la..tat time this word slipped my mind..hehe
bt since u say contribution made sense also en okiz lor..hehe

yaN said...

hee.. contribution and compromise different meaning wor! =P whahhahaahha!!

cohesion can? hehe..
1. the act or state of cohering, uniting, or sticking together.

xin said...

hhahha...the two of u are funny man... u all playing word game ahx... finding words that start's with c???? hahah... but then... thanks for the comments...mmm... okie... let me try... i think compromise ahx...mmmm...communication is better than compromise... u commuicate rather than u compromise... so ur compromise out!!! hahaha ehx... as for cohesion ahx... very strange leix... okie la.. barely passed... give u a c6 lo...hahaha